men..

thoughtful

yesterday, i was on the phone for 1st half of my day in office
trying to give advice to my best friend
and another friend
kinda ironic
since i can't even solve my own problem
haha

men always say women are complicated
are we really?
men are not simlpe too
men can be fickle-minded
men can be freaky
men can have mood swings
men can be full of excuses
men can be unpredictable
and..
men can be bastards
actually i tink they are horny all the time

i actually have a few male friends who agree to the point
about men being bastards
one said
90% of the time
men think wif their dicks
the rest of the 10%
they think wif their balls
all men watch porn
and they use their trusty left/right hand to do stuff dat girls don't
and then they give the excuse dat it's some biological shit
so they need to release and replenish and watever crap

no no
i'm not agianst all dat
maybe it really is a need due to biological difference
but guys
do all dat in ur own privacy
and dun go around offending girls with ur words and/or questions
we do not need to know wat u do in ur bedroom/bathroom
and neither do we need to know ur fantasy targets
my fren recently read another guy's blog
who actually listed the names of his 70+ sex partners
and posted pics of them
wth..
and recently
i got to know from a fren some stuff abt another fren of ours
and after dat
i dunno wat to tink of him
the good image dat i've had of him for so many years is shattered
and i'm kinda disappointed in him
oh well

alrite
not all men are like dat
BUT!
men who are not like dat
are either taken or gay
or they are just looking around
waiting for the right one
meanwhile playing wif girls' feelings
and they will give the excuse
dat they fear commitment or some shit
or dat there's nothing wrong in making more frens
yadda yadda yadda
remember this
a fine line always separate the 2 sides

i've got a close fren who's perpetually troubled by love
with super nice guys
she's troubled for years aredi
i tink they are bastards
not in the literal sense
but i feel dat playing wif a girl's feelings
is a bastard act too
why guys
why do u treat girls so nice when u dun see a future wif them

as the saying goes
被爱是幸福, 爱人是痛苦

爱一个人
真的是蛮痛苦的
但是
被爱真的幸福吗?
我不以为然

looking at the other side of the coin
sometimes
being liked doesn't feel good too
another close fren of mine is liked by her close fren
they were really close before
and for many years too
now, things are somehow different
there's a feeling of awkwardness
and the friendship will never be the same as before

wat a sad world

think i shld stop writing now
can feel myself drowning in depressive thoughts