in the name of love......

hmmm

looking at the several blog drafts i have
(forgot why i didn't post them)
came across this draft
containing the below quotes
which i took from a chinese novel
dat xiang ru lent me a long time ago
the novel is a sad one
coz every character is another character's "spare"
seems like everyone in the story
is either having an affair
or loving someone he/she shldn't
or loving someone who doesn't reciprocate
and the story shows how everyone one is related
like fren of fren, colleague etc
really sad
but pretty realistic
makes me tink about wat i would/should do
if i were one of the characters
forgot why i didn't post these quotes
but anyhow
here they are
sad truths
in the name of love

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当一个女人感到幸福
也一定有另一个女人
因为她的幸福而痛苦

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暗恋和单恋都是自虐

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少年的暗恋是悠长而轻盈的
成年之后的暗恋却是漫长而苦涩的

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跟男人做爱之后要自己回家的女人是最委屈最没地位的

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爱情并不迷信
而是我们迷信爱情
破除迷信的过程是漫长而痛苦的

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成长
便是接受一个不完美的自己
和一个不理想的回忆
也接受这个世界的不完美和不理想

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我们放下尊严
放下个性
放下固执
都是因为放不下一个人

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恋爱是一个追求不自由的过程
当你埋怨太不自由了
就是你不爱他的时候

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不如你送我一场春雨
那么即使我流泪
在雨中
也不容易被你看到